The Kathie Owen Perspective — Articles

Observations on leadership, human patterns under pressure, and performance.

You Can Want It Without Needing It
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You Can Want It Without Needing It

What if you could deeply want something without needing it to happen? Explore non-attachment, uncertainty, Reality Transurfing, emotional regulation, and why letting go doesn't mean giving up. Learn how to care deeply without making your peace depend on the outcome.

#NonAttachment #RealityTransurfing #EmotionalRegulation #PersonalGrowth

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The Hidden Cost of Being the Strong One
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The Hidden Cost of Being the Strong One

The Strongman pattern makes over-responsibility look like strength. Learn how carrying other people's emotions, problems, and perceptions can drain your power, presence, and peace—and how Radical Responsibility, Non-Attachment, and Courage help you put down what isn't yours.

#HumanPatternsUnderPressure #Leadership #SelfAwareness #EmotionalIntelligence

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Non-Attachment Is a Leadership Advantage
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Non-Attachment Is a Leadership Advantage

Non-attachment isn’t detachment—it’s leadership clarity. Learn how non-attachment strengthens decision-making, emotional regulation, boundaries, and discernment under pressure. This article explores why leaders who release emotional over-identification lead with calm, precision, and authority. #Leadership #EmotionalRegulation #NonAttachment #ExecutivePresence

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Excellence vs Perfection Under Pressure
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Excellence vs Perfection Under Pressure

Excellence isn't perfection. This workplace case study explores how pressure, entitlement, and emotional dysregulation quietly destroy performance—and what emotionally regulated leadership actually looks like when the stakes are high. #LeadershipUnderPressure #EmotionalRegulation #ExcellenceNotPerfection

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Taking Control: The Impact of Responsibility and Mindset
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Taking Control: The Impact of Responsibility and Mindset

Responsibility and mindset are two closely related concepts that play a crucial role in shaping our lives and determining our success. The way we approach responsibility, and the mindset we adopt, can have a profound impact on our experiences and outcomes. We discuss responsibility which I think gets a bad rap. And we are going to use 3 different options to interpret responsibility: A Course in Miracles, Reality Transurfing, Levels of Consciousness by Dr. David Hawkins.

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The Needy, Indignant and the Fighter
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The Needy, Indignant and the Fighter

In any situation, a person can respond with two extremes of behavior. One is to be swept along by the current like a powerless paper boat and the other is to row stubbornly against the tide. We can ALL remember a time when we have been one or the other. Let’s discuss how to combat these situations!

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Why Responsibility is a Good Thing
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Why Responsibility is a Good Thing

Change your perspective on responsibility and you will not only get your power back, where it belongs, but you will transform your life. Kathie discusses the power of responsibility. It is as simple as a choice!

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