The Kathie Owen Perspective — Articles
Observations on leadership, human patterns under pressure, and performance.
What does pressure reveal about you? Kathie Owen explores human patterns, leadership, Reality Transurfing, AI, fitness, non-attachment, human diligence, curiosity, and how awareness creates choice in this unique AI-led interview.
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Pressure can hide choices that are right in front of us. Explore how Human Patterns Under Pressure, awareness, non-attachment, and Vadim Zeland's Reality Transurfing Space of Variations can help you pause, see new possibilities, and choose with greater clarity.
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What happens when uncertainty hits and you don't know what comes next? Explore the power of the pause, Michael Singer's approach to surrender, Reality Transurfing's inner and outer intention, and how Non-Attachment, Radical Responsibility, and Courage help us respond without forcing certainty.
#RealityTransurfing #Surrender #Consciousness #PersonalGrowth
What if you could deeply want something without needing it to happen? Explore non-attachment, uncertainty, Reality Transurfing, emotional regulation, and why letting go doesn't mean giving up. Learn how to care deeply without making your peace depend on the outcome.
#NonAttachment #RealityTransurfing #EmotionalRegulation #PersonalGrowth
Feeling stuck in uncertainty? Learn how the pause can restore peace, power, and presence when pressure hits. Kathie Owen explores Human Patterns Under Pressure, Reality Transurfing, alternative flow, awareness, and why not knowing what comes next doesn't always mean something is wrong.
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The Strongman pattern makes over-responsibility look like strength. Learn how carrying other people's emotions, problems, and perceptions can drain your power, presence, and peace—and how Radical Responsibility, Non-Attachment, and Courage help you put down what isn't yours.
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People-pleasing can become hidden leadership risk when kindness turns into over-responsibility, false agreement, and silence under pressure. Explore the Clown pattern, Non-Attachment, Radical Responsibility, Courage, and how people-pleasing can affect leadership, workplace culture, mergers and acquisitions, and human diligence.
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Discover finger holding for stress and nervous system regulation, a simple practice rooted in Jin Shin Jyutsu. Learn the traditional meaning of each finger and how holding a finger can create a pause for awareness, emotional regulation, and better choices under pressure.
#NervousSystemRegulation #StressRelief #HumanPatternsUnderPressure #JinShinJyutsu
Why does one small mistake overshadow everything that went right? Explore perfectionism through the Juggler in Human Patterns Under Pressure and learn how fear of judgment, self-criticism, and overthinking can steal presence — and how the Observer's Lens helps restore perspective.
#Perfectionism #HumanBehavior #SelfAwareness #PersonalGrowth
Learn why criticism and self-criticism increase under pressure and how they affect leadership, workplace culture, communication, and decision-making. Explore criticism through human diligence, self-awareness, and leadership psychology.
#Leadership #HumanDiligence #SelfAwareness #WorkplaceCulture
Why do you shut down, go quiet, or pull away under pressure? Explore Withdrawal, one of the seven Human Patterns Under Pressure, and learn how attachment, self-awareness, emotional regulation, non-attachment, Radical Responsibility, and courage can help leaders recognize automatic patterns and respond with greater Power, Presence, and Peace.
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Why do we reach for control when life feels uncertain? Kathie Owen explores control as a human pattern under pressure, the nervous system’s search for certainty, Michael Singer’s ideas on resistance, and Reality Transurfing’s concept of excess potential. Learn how observation, awareness, and non-attachment can create more choice, clarity, and flow.
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Discover the seven human patterns pressure reveals and learn how observation—not judgment—can transform leadership, communication, relationships, and self-awareness. Explore practical tools to recognize hidden behavior patterns under stress.
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Discover seven powerful lessons from Reality Transurfing that can transform how you handle pressure, leadership, emotional regulation, and difficult people. Learn why pressure reveals hidden patterns and how observation helps leaders make better decisions under stress.
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Discover why entitlement isn't just arrogance—it's often a nervous system trying to regulate uncertainty. Learn how emotional patterns shape leadership, relationships, and organizational performance in this insight from Human Patterns Under Pressure.
#Leadership #EmotionalIntelligence #HumanBehavior #ExecutiveLeadership
Discover why some people naturally notice human behavior under pressure, why observation can become overwhelming, and how silence restores clarity. Learn how leaders can improve decision-making by managing attention, expanding capacity, and seeing the bigger picture instead of getting trapped inside the drama.
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Discover why patterns reveal more than isolated events. Learn how pressure exposes what already exists, why observation creates clarity, and how recognizing recurring behaviors can transform leadership, relationships, and personal growth.
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Organizations rarely fail because of one bad person. They fail when responsibility becomes fragmented and no one owns the human cost. Discover what Pontius Pilate can teach today's leaders about moral disengagement, executive presence, human diligence, workplace culture, and leadership psychology.
#Leadership #WorkplaceCulture #HumanDiligence
Have you ever felt excluded, overlooked, or left out? In this article, Kathie Owen explores why exclusion is rarely about the person being left out and often about identity, attachment, and belonging. Learn how these hidden patterns appear in families, workplaces, leadership teams, and mergers and acquisitions—and how recognizing them can change the way you see people forever.
#HumanDiligence #LeadershipPsychology #Belonging
Discover why pressure doesn't create behavior—it reveals it. In this article, Kathie Owen explores how fear, trust, identity, and psychological safety shape leadership, workplace culture, and organizational resilience. Learn to recognize the hidden patterns that determine long-term success.
#Leadership #HumanBehavior #WorkplaceCulture #HumanPatternsUnderPressure
Discover why the word "should" creates unnecessary pressure, shame, and emotional dysregulation. Learn how preferences, attachment, radical responsibility, and courage shape resilient leadership and healthier relationships through the Human Patterns Under Pressure framework.
#Leadership #EmotionalRegulation #HumanPatterns #PersonalGrowth
After 300 podcast episodes, Kathie Owen shares seven powerful lessons about human behavior, leadership, nervous system regulation, and self-awareness. Discover why pressure reveals patterns and how awareness creates choice.
#HumanBehavior #Leadership #SelfAwareness #NervousSystemRegulation
Growing up around fear taught me how to recognize human behavior, nervous system patterns, and the hidden dynamics that shape families, workplaces, and leadership teams. Discover why awareness is the first step toward change—and how unrecognized fear often drives the patterns we see under pressure.
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Your team knows when you're under pressure—even when you think you're hiding it. Learn how nervous systems, trust, emotional contagion, and leadership influence culture, communication, and performance. Discover what pressure reveals and why awareness is the first step toward change.
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Pressure doesn't create patterns—it reveals them. Discover how the voice in your head shapes your reactions under stress, why we seek certainty during uncertainty, and how awareness can interrupt the cycle. Learn insights from Michael Singer, Reality Transurfing, and real-life pattern recognition to respond differently under pressure.
#Leadership #SelfAwareness #EmotionalIntelligence #HumanPatternsUnderPressure
Most people think pressure is what causes burnout, poor decisions, and emotional exhaustion. In reality, it is often rigidity. Learn why psychological flexibility is one of the most important leadership skills in business, relationships, and life—and how adapting to uncertainty can help you perform better under pressure.
#Leadership #SelfLeadership #EmotionalIntelligence #HumanPerformance
Why do we create stories when we don't have all the information? Explore how uncertainty affects the nervous system, influences decision-making, and impacts leadership, relationships, and performance. Learn how to recognize assumptions, separate facts from stories, and develop the awareness needed to respond with greater clarity under pressure.
#Leadership #EmotionalRegulation #HumanBehavior #SelfAwareness
Many high performers struggle to relax, even when life is calm. This article explores why hypervigilance develops, how toxic environments train the nervous system to constantly scan for danger, and what leaders can do to create emotional safety. Learn why peace can feel unfamiliar and how awareness helps break the cycle.
#Leadership #EmotionalIntelligence #NervousSystem #HumanBehavior
Power vs Force Marketing
Market from a place of power not force like this! One of my biggest pet peeves as a coach is being marketed to, forcefully. Today I am going to explain what I mean by this. I am going to give you examples of what to do and what not to do. As well as a clear and obvious example of how this was done to me. Let’s market with power, my friend!!
Updated Amy Porterfield Review 2023
The Amy Porterfield review articles on this site are very popular. So here’s an update and more content. Going into 2023 we discuss how Amy is still the queen of online marketing made sleazy. And in an unregulated market that is easy for her to do. She is lining her pocketbook with our money and is not returning the dollars in service. Unless of course, you are one of her favorite customers that I call “online course junkies”, who take the course and never use the material. Or maybe you do use the material and really create awesome success. Great for you. But do you also market like Amy? If so you might want to read this.
Expectations for Success Seekers
Today we discuss expectations. Expectations are a funny thing and they require balance because if you expect too much you set yourself up for failure. Expect too little and you will not exert yourself to achieve your goals. Kathie gives an excerpt from her book The Truth Bubbles Up on expectations. She also gives entrepreneurs, coaches, and team members 5 research-based tips on setting expectations that actually convert into growth.
Connect the Dots - My Online Business Journey
Connecting the dots looking backward. Kathie’s online business journey in a story. See how and why Kathie Owen got to where she is today. Helping others one heart at a time despite being robbed from the online marketing world of business coaches and platforms.
Transurf Your Way Out of That Slump
Get out of that slump the Reality Transurfing way. Learn how to lift that slump. Feel the doubt melt away. Transform that faith into knowledge and bring your heart into harmony with the mind. And get back into the zone or flow!
Amy Porterfield on Social Curator
Amy Porterfield was a guest coach in the Social Curator community today. She was coaching us on email list-building tips. I tried to like her, I promise. But I found so many flaws that I just had to share here so hopefully, my fellow curators don’t fall for her bro-marketing crap!
Amy Porterfield Honest Review: Not Affiliated
Amy Porterfield honest review because I am not affiliated. Let’s discuss her latest $37 webinar and the questions that go along with it. Specifically why DCA and LBS need to steer clear and how spammy her marketing has become!
Grief, non-attachment, and pressure can reveal information we couldn't see before. Kathie Owen explores Reality Transurfing's principle of advantage and how attention and human patterns affect relationships, leadership, M&A, and business transitions.
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