Reality Transurfing and Guilt

Guilt, often perceived as a moral compass, can paradoxically become a heavy burden, hindering our progress and clouding our judgment. Drawing insights from Reality Transurfing, let's delve into the nature of guilt and discover how to free ourselves from its grasp while embracing audacity and self-assurance.


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Quite the opposite position is true of the timid victim who is uncertain of whether they are behaving correctly or not. The victim fears being declared guilty, giving everyone the right to administer punishment.

Even the faintest, most deeply hidden feeling of guilt can open the gates to punishment in the subconscious mind. A person, who feels guilty, theoretically agrees that robbers and bandits have the right to attack them as a form of punishment and so they are afraid.

-Vadim Zeland, Reality Transurfing I-V

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If, however, you have chosen the ego as your teacher, which means guilt and fear have taken the place of love, anything you say or do will come from guilt and fear.

If you do not pay attention to the guilt, it will be repressed, and whatever is repressed will be projected. When guilt is projected, it takes the form of attack-either on yourself (sickness), or on someone else (anger).

No one in his or her right mind would pretend that attack is loving.

-The Healing Power of Love Ken Wapnick


Guilt, so commonly used in our society to manipulate and punish, manifests itself in a variety of expressions, such as remorse, self-recrimination, masochism, and the whole gamut of symptoms of victimhood. Unconscious Guilt results in psychosomatic disease, accident-proneness, and suicidal behaviors. Many people struggle with Guilt their entire lives, while others desperately attempt escape by amorally denying Guilt altogether.

-Power vs Force Dr. David Hawkins


Guilt is the most powerful force working against your inner expression of joy and happiness. Whether you are working on better health, better relationships, or more prosperity, guilt is the source of hardened attitudes toward life.

-Matthew David Hurtado Ask Until It is Given


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Guilt Topics Discussed:

Guilt as Excess Potential

In the philosophy of Reality Transurfing, guilt is viewed as excess potential—a weighty burden that inhibits our energy and hampers our ability to navigate life with clarity and purpose.

Beyond Good and Bad

Like Shakespeare once said, "There is no such thing as good or bad but thinking makes it so." Reality Transurfing echoes this sentiment, emphasizing that guilt is often a product of societal conditioning rather than an objective truth.

I once had a question about this quote on my YouTube Channel. The individual asked how could we look at a murderer or a child’s illness as neither good nor bad.

I told that person that we must be realistic otherwise the murderer would never pay for their crimes. And we also would not care about our sick child.

This quote was spoken by Hamlet in the Shakespeare play where he was contemplating the nature of human existence.

Punishment of Guilt

Indulging in feelings of guilt inevitably leads to self-imposed punishment. This self-fulfilling prophecy traps individuals in a cycle of remorse and suffering, hindering their ability to move forward.

The Ten Commandments as Recommendations

Instead of rigid dictates, the Ten Commandments serve as recommendations for maintaining inner balance and harmony. They offer guidance on behaviors that align with our true desires and intentions.

Manipulative Dynamics

Those willing to absorb feelings of guilt often become targets for manipulative individuals who feed on their energy. By refusing to take on this emotional burden, individuals can protect themselves from exploitation and maintain their autonomy.

Letting Go of Justification

The tendency to justify oneself serves as a vulnerability that manipulators exploit. By releasing the need for self-justification and cultivating self-assurance, individuals can repel manipulative influences and assert their autonomy.

Embracing Forgiveness

Seeking forgiveness, whether through admission of mistakes, prayer, or confession, serves as a means of dispelling the excess potential of guilt. However, it's crucial to recognize that everyone has the right to ask for forgiveness only once.

Freedom from Judgment

In the absence of guilt, individuals become immune to the judgments and assertions of others. By embracing their true selves and releasing the fear of punishment, they render themselves impervious to insults and attacks.


Freedom from guilt

Recommendations:

  1. Release Guilt: Recognize guilt as excess potential that weighs you down. Practice self-forgiveness and let go of past mistakes to free yourself from its grip.

  2. Protect Your Energy: Refuse to take on feelings of guilt, as they make you vulnerable to manipulation. Guard your energy and maintain your sovereignty.

  3. Embrace Forgiveness:

    “Forgiveness is the Fragrance that the Violet Sheds on the Heel that Has Crushed It.” - Sean Croxton.

    Seek forgiveness as a means of dispelling guilt. Let go of the need for self-justification and assert your autonomy.

By applying these insights and recommendations, individuals can liberate themselves from the shackles of guilt and emerge as masters of their own destiny.


Conclusion

In conclusion, by embracing the principles of Reality Transurfing, we can liberate ourselves from the chains of guilt and step into a life of empowerment and fulfillment. Let go of the past, embrace audacious self-assurance, and reclaim your autonomy. As you release guilt and assert your true self, you pave the way for a future filled with boundless possibilities. Embrace this journey of transformation and discover the freedom that comes with living guilt-free.


Kathie Owen, Master Reality Transurfing and Reality Creation


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Kathie Owen

Kathie is a Certified Fitness Trainer and Life Coach since 2002. Kathie coaches healthy habits, having a growth mindset, fitness, and Reality Transurfing®

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