Laws of Non-attachment

Allow others to be who they are. Allow yourself to be who you are. Don't force situations. Solutions will emerge. Uncertainty is reality. Embrace it.

Laws of non-attachment. They keep us safe. You do not see this often. Everyone is trying to force their opinions and situations. Force is everywhere. 

Embrace uncertainty. It is a part of life. Learn to let go. Go with the flow.

Allow others to be as they are. Do not force them to change. 

Allow situations to just be.

A mental diet can help with this. A mental diet is simply becoming aware of your thoughts and letting the negative thoughts go, do not dwell on them. As you can imagine it’s simple but not easy.


Solutions emerge as you let go. Infinite solutions. Oh, it helps to let go.

The first time this really hit me was in 2007 when I read the book A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle. Let go and don’t be so attached to things you cannot control.

Make it a habit to let go of expectations, opinions, and situations. Let things be as they are. You will find a new level of awareness when you do this!

This is also similar to advantage in Reality Transurfing- the book by Vadim Zeland. Advantage means that you see the world as always taking care of you. When you do these things start to change! Life happens and you get out of the way!

You do not know the real reason why things are the way they are. Embrace the uncomfortableness and let it be. You will find so much more when you do!


Kathie Owen Private Consultant

Kathie Owen is a private consultant who observes what others miss inside leadership. She specializes in human-pattern intelligence—stabilizing emotional and cultural risk before it impacts performance, valuation, or trust. Through high-level advisory work, speaking, and The Kathie Owen Perspective podcast, she helps leaders regulate under pressure and lead with clarity.

https://www.kathieowen.com
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