The Secret Sauce of Workplace Storytelling
How to Tell Stories That Actually Stick at Work
Storytelling is not just for Hollywood or bedtime routines. It’s a tool. A powerful one. And when you learn how to use it, you can change the way your team connects, communicates, and even collaborates.
Recently, I shared a lesson inside Toastmasters that had everyone buzzing. The topic? Storytelling. But not just any storytelling—storytelling that sticks. The kind that makes people lean in, remember what you said, and feel something long after the meeting is over.
And here’s the thing: this isn’t just about speeches. It’s about everyday workplace communication. From sales pitches to performance reviews to Monday morning huddles—storytelling is the missing ingredient that transforms dry information into inspiration.
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The Marley & Me Lesson
Think about a movie that made you cry, laugh, or both. I’ll go first: Marley and Me. If you’ve seen it, you remember the lovable chaos of Marley, the bond between Owen Wilson and Jennifer Aniston’s characters, and—spoiler alert—the gut-wrenching ending.
When the dog had to be put to sleep, the whole theater was in tears. I was too. But at that exact moment, my young son turned to me, grabbed my face, and shouted, “Mom, are you crying?” Loud enough for the entire theater to hear.
The crowd burst out laughing through their tears. That moment shifted everything. A sad scene turned into a shared memory of humor and connection.
Why does this matter? Because stories like that—real, human, and detailed—are what people remember.
The Four Ingredients of a Story That Sticks
This isn’t my framework. It comes from Kindra Hall’s incredible book Stories That Stick. But it changed everything for me as a speaker, and it can change the way you lead and communicate at work.
Here are the four essential elements:
1. Identifiable Characters
We need someone to see ourselves in. Not just “a coworker” but “my coworker Joe who wears cowboy boots to every meeting.”
In Marley and Me, we connected with Jennifer Aniston, Owen Wilson, and Marley himself. In my story, you connected with me—and especially with my curious little boy. Characters create connection.
2. Authentic Emotion
Neuroscience proves it: emotion bonds people together. Logic might persuade, but emotion inspires action.
In my story, the authentic emotion came through tears. Everyone was already crying—and then laughter bubbled up through my son’s innocence. The mix of grief and humor made it unforgettable.
At work, this could be the frustration of a failed project, the joy of hitting a goal, or the quiet pride of mentoring someone into leadership. If you let people feel, they’ll remember.
3. A Significant Moment
Every story needs a turning point. Not the whole history, not a 20-slide timeline—just the moment that changed everything.
For me, it was when my son looked me in the eye and asked, “Mom, are you crying?” That was the turning point.
In the workplace, this might be the moment a client finally said “yes,” the instant a team member had a breakthrough, or the day a leader decided to change course. Significant moments grab attention.
4. Specific Details
Details are the glue that makes stories stick. Think about it: in Marley and Me, you don’t just remember the sad ending. You remember the vet’s office, Marley lying on the table, the quiet sobs in the room.
In my story, you remember a little boy’s voice breaking the tension in a crowded theater. Details create visuals. Visuals create memory.
Applying This to the Workplace
So what does all of this have to do with workplace wellness and communication? Everything.
Here’s why:
In leadership – A manager who shares a story about a past mistake, complete with authentic emotion and specific detail, builds trust far faster than a manager who only shares polished bullet points.
In team meetings – Sharing a story of one employee’s small win (with details about their effort and emotion) motivates more than announcing, “We hit 90% of our goal.”
In wellness programs – Storytelling helps people connect to why they should care. Imagine a wellness coordinator telling the story of an employee who lowered stress and regained energy through mindful breaks. That’s far more inspiring than saying, “Take a five-minute break.”
In conflict resolution – Instead of blaming or lecturing, you can share a story about when you too struggled with communication or burnout. Stories disarm defenses and create empathy.
When stories enter the workplace, walls come down. Stress softens. People remember the message and the feeling that came with it.
Why Most Workplace Stories Fail
Here’s the problem: most leaders, managers, and even wellness coaches tell stories that are… boring.
They forget characters. They skip the emotion. They ramble through the entire history instead of focusing on the moment that mattered. And they gloss over details that make it come alive.
The result? People tune out. They scroll on their phones. They forget.
But when you use the four elements, your stories land. They don’t just land—they ripple.
How to Practice Storytelling at Work
Start Small. Share a story in your next team meeting. Make it about a small win or a lesson learned.
Use Real People. Give your characters names and quirks. “Our client in Dallas” is forgettable. “Janet from Dallas who always brings homemade salsa to meetings” is memorable.
Focus on the Moment. Cut the fluff. Get to the turning point.
Add Details. What did the room smell like? What words were spoken? What was the look on someone’s face?
Practice in Safe Spaces. Toastmasters is perfect for this, but you can also practice with a trusted coworker or even your family.
Storytelling and Workplace Wellness
Workplace wellness isn’t just about yoga mats and fruit bowls. It’s about connection. People thrive when they feel seen, heard, and understood.
Storytelling gives you a way to connect beyond roles and job titles. It allows leaders to be human. It creates shared laughter in stressful times. It makes lessons about resilience, teamwork, and wellness stick.
Think about it: wellness programs fail when they feel like “one more thing” on the checklist. They succeed when employees feel a reason to join in—when they see characters like themselves succeeding, when they connect emotionally, when there’s a significant moment that shows possibility, and when the details make it real.
That’s why stories belong in wellness talks, leadership training, and even casual check-ins.
Final Thoughts
If your workplace communication feels flat, here’s your next step: tell a story. A real one. One with characters, emotion, a moment, and details.
Do that, and your message won’t just be heard. It will stick.
And maybe—just maybe—it will transform not only how you communicate but how your whole workplace connects.
Because stories aren’t just for books and movies. They’re for leaders. They’re for teams. And they’re for anyone who wants to make work a little more human.
About Kathie
Kathie Owen is a corporate wellness consultant, speaker, and mindset coach with over 25 years of experience helping leaders and teams reduce burnout, strengthen communication, and thrive in the workplace. She is the founder of Better You Challenges and the host of Kathie’s Coaching Podcast. Through storytelling, sports psychology, and practical wellness tools, Kathie helps organizations build healthy, happy teams—one story at a time.
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Transcript
Today's episode is about the education seminar that I gave inside Toastmasters the other day, and it's all about storytelling and how to tell a really good story whenever you're trying to talk about anything in general, and especially when you're giving a speech. And that's what we're gonna talk about today. You are listening to Kathie's Coaching podcast. I'm your host, Kathie Owen. So today's episode is an education session that I gave inside Toastmasters that has gotten a lot of feedback on it. In fact, when I talked about this education session the other day. In Toastmasters, there are evaluations that take place at the end of this meeting, and those evaluations are so beneficial for so many reasons. But what happened on these evaluations of the three speeches that were done that day is each speech included all of these elements that I'm gonna talk about in storytelling and. Which are very good elements to use to make an impact and have influence in your storytelling topic. So without further ado, let's get into the lesson. I want you to think of a movie, a movie that actually evoked a lot of emotion and just a simple scene that happened inside of a movie is enough. And while you're thinking of that, I'm going to share mine. So remember the movie Marley and Me. Marley and me star, Jennifer Aniston. And. Owen Wilson, and they bonded over this dog and there was a couple and they ended up getting together and all of that. Well, as fate would have it, the dog had to be put to sleep, and that evoked a lot of emotion. But I'm going to share. One step further and share my own story that had to do with this movie. So at the time when the movie came out, my boys were very young at the time, and I guess my youngest was about six or seven. And at the time in the movie when they were putting the dog to sleep, my son grabs my face and he says,"mom, are you crying?" At the top of his lungs and the whole movie theater, who also was crying at the same time, burst. Out laughing and it kind of broke the emotion, but I will never forget that moment. And the reason why this is so impactful when you're telling a speech or telling a story of any kind. From the book by Kindra Hall, Stories that Stick, I will have links to that in the show notes and description below. The book is called Stories That Stick. How Storytelling Can Captivate Customers, influence Audiences, and Transform Your Business. So the reason I even picked this as an education session for Toastmasters is because when I first joined Toastmasters. My speech bombed. It is speech bombed like crazy. Well, one of my fellow Toastmasters gave me this book and told me to read it, and when I did, I got her point. She didn't even have to tell me. I was not telling stories. And there are four elements that Kindra teaches us to teach a really impactful story and to include in every speech that you do because it will make an impact. And honestly, that's all you want is to make an impact whenever you're giving a story or a speech. So. What are the four elements? Kathie I'm so glad you asked. Number one is identifiable characters. Stories need someone we can see ourselves in, not just a man, not just my neighbor, but. My neighbor Joe, who always wore cowboy boots to the grocery store. That is an identifiable character. And if you think of the movies, Marley and me, the identifiable characters in that story were. Owen Wilson and Jennifer Aniston, and if you think about my story even further, then I am the identifiable character. My son is also an identifiable character. Number two element that we need is authentic emotion. Emotion is what connects us. Neuroscience proves that. And if you can use authentic emotion when you're telling a story, you are going to connect with your audience. It's almost like a given. So the authentic emotion in this story is when we were all crying because the dog was put to sleep. And if you think about the movie that you were identifying with and the scene. The emotion is most likely was what connected you, and it was authentic emotion. I took it one step further with my son, having everybody in the movie theater laugh because of his innocence. Mom, are you crying? And everybody in the movie theater was crying at that time, but he connected it with authentic emotion by helping everybody get a laugh. And number three element that is important for a great story is a significant moment. Every story needs a turning point. It's not the whole history, it's the one moment that everything changed. For example, putting the dog to sleep, of course, that's a significant moment. Or my son grabbing my face and saying. Looking at me in the eyes and saying, mom, are you crying? That was a significant moment. And then finally we have specific details. Details. Make it stick. Stories that stick, get it. Pun intended. You want these specific details to really hang in there. So that. The audience is engaged. I mean, if you saw the movie Marley and Me, you probably remember the specific details when they were at the vet. The dog is laying down. Everybody's crying, everybody's sad. Those details made the story stick, so. Do you see how that story works? You know, you, you get all of those four elements. You give us a character that we recognize. You let us feel something real. You take us to one specific moment and you make it vivid with details. Do those four things and your story won't just be heard. It will actually stick. You know, I love that my lesson in this class made such an impact because even the table topics utilized this as well, and we had a guest who got up and spoke at the meeting. And actually pulled this off as well. And if I had known this when I first joined Toastmasters many years ago, my first speech would've been totally different. So I highly recommend the book Stories that Stick because it does help with your captivating your customers, captivating your audience, you influence your audience, and you transform whatever you happen to be doing. Alright, that's my episode for today. I trust that you found it helpful, and if you know someone who can benefit from this, please share with them. And until next time, I will see you next time. Peace out and namaste.
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