Boundaries Actually Keep You Safe

stop the mind screw May 04, 2021

Boundaries are what keep you safe. You don't even have to worry if someone else has compassion or if someone else is cruel. When you have established boundaries and values you know where trust comes from and that is not outside of yourself.

No vaccine will be doing this. Sorry, but it has to come from within and boundaries are how you do it!

This video is all about Boundaries and what keeps your kingdom/queendom safe. 

I saw this post: 

Okay, so what if there was one of those? There would be no contrast. For example, if I had given my ex one of those vaccines, I would still be with him. 

Our values do not match up and no vaccine is going to fix that. And guess what?! That is OK!

Boundaries fix that! Boundaries are what keeps you safe, they keep cruelty and lack of compassion out of your life and the Stop the Mind Screw!

Watch the video about boundaries, pitfalls you hit for not having boundaries, and solutions that you encounter when you do have boundaries.

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Reality Transurfing Bullies

Yesterday I was triggered. And today I am here to tell you there is a new inclusion to the revision step in Stop the Mind Screw and that is HEALING.

 

I am triggered by bullies. I have been bullied all of my life, even as a very young child. I recognize a bully a mile away and am easily triggered by bullying instances.

I will be doing a video on this process soon (May 20, 2021) but wanted to get this blog post out now! This is healing to me!

As you may or may not know I quit talking about Reality Transurfing because of the "leader" of the group and how she "bullied" (IMO) others out of talking about the book. You can read that post here.

This post was on the International Transurfing Group, and this is what triggered me:

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In my ego's opinion, this was bullying. In my ego's opinion, Renee is a bully.  

I could be wrong. She did state that was not her intention - to the group to save face! And it sure appears that she did bully Aaron Doughty...

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Don't Like It? Revise it!

stop the mind screw Apr 29, 2021

Revision is one of the most powerful things you can do to transform your life.

And in today's video, I teach you about the pitfalls you hit when you do not use revision.

And simple solutions that happen when you do.

Watch the video now!

 What is the Pruning Shears of Revision? This is a great question. I am often asked this question because I refer to it over and over again as a solution to almost every problem. I discuss it in-depth in the video and Here is a link to a free pdf document and lecture by Neville Goddard himself. 

When is the best time to revise your day? At night before bed go over your day and see where you were reactive or things did not go as you would have preferred. Then revise those situations as you fall asleep. Why? Because your brain waves are optimal for revision. First thing in the morning is great too. Ideally, you want to revise as you fall asleep so your subconscious mind is clear.

  1. You continue being reactive
  2. There is no power there
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Why Responsibility Is A Good Thing

stop the mind screw Apr 21, 2021

Quit giving responsibility a bad wrap. Take your power back and shift your perspective.

Responsibility as stated in A Course In Miracles Chapter 21 Responsibility for Sight

Say only this, but mean it with no reservations, for here the power of salvation lies: I am responsible for what I see. I choose the feelings I experience, and I decide upon the goal I would achieve. And everything that seems to happen to me I ask for and receive as I have asked. Deceive yourself no longer that you are helpless in the face of what is done to you.

 

What is a diet without a meal plan? An important element of a mental diet meal plan is responsibility.

But responsibility gets a bad rap and today I want to shift your perspective on this topic.

Matthew McConaughey lost his father at a young age, I think around the age of 20. After the stages of grief, he found that if his father had lived, he wouldn't have been the actor he was today because he relied on his father so much. That is...

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Stop the Mind Screw

stop the mind screw Apr 13, 2021

In today's video, I talk about an experience I had and where I came up with Stop The Mind Screw.

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It all started back in 2008. I got a bullying email on my blackberry, yes, that is how long ago this was, from the step-mom. (watch until the end to see my blueberry blooper!)

This was nothing new. My ex and his wife bullied me all the time and they could get away with this because the courts did not monitor our emails back in the day.

They NEVER once co-parented with me and this was typical.

But on this day in February 2008, I had a nervous breakdown. I did not even know where I was, that was how bad this was.

Somehow one of my friends was able to help me and that night I had a realization. One that changed my life forever.

I had recently read A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle, my #1 book on my reading list - for a reason! And I realized I had been telling myself (and anyone who would listen) a very disempowering story about my life as a mom - with a...

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Why This 1 Question is So Important to Answer!

stop the mind screw Apr 06, 2021
 

So many do not know exactly what they want.

In today's video, I discuss the pitfalls of not knowing exactly what they want. One of those is drifting as Napoleon Hill talks about in his book Outwitting the Devil.

I also give 5 solutions to these pitfalls. Be sure to watch today's video and even get the free template that gives you the recipe for writing down your exact goal.

You can snag that template here!

CLICK HERE TO WATCH THE VIDEO NOW!

Pitfall #1 Drifting

Pitfall #2 Reactive

Pitfall #3 Nothing ever changes

Pitfall #4 Or could get a whole lot worse

Pitfall #5 Loss of confidence

Solution #1 You know exactly where you are going

Solution #2 Pivots become easy

Solution #3 Reevaluate your goals and understand

Solution #4 Definiteness of purpose

Solution #5 You are in flow

Book: Outwitting the Devil Napoleon Hill https://amzn.to/3DOghiM

Video House was Stolen From Me https://youtu.be/5JhiPunRegQ

Blog Post about House: https://www.kathieowen.com/blog/stolen-house

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Is Positivity Toxic?

In today's video I discuss this very thing.

Watch it here.

The word toxic positivity is an oxymoron. Or as we like to call it at Stop the Mind Screw a "toxi-moron!"

As a Positive Mindset Coach, it appears that I may teach rainbows and butterflies, but I beg to differ.

I have news for those who think that. I get mad! I get really angry!

BUT I do not get reactive nor is that what I teach.

I go within, feel the emotion, talk to my Inner Being and find a way to be proactive instead of reactive.

Proactivity can look like drawing a boundary with someone who has treated you ugly.

Or by being kind to yourself and taking a break from the situation.

So, positivity is not toxic. It can be forced, but that is stupidity and not positive at all!!

It is my hope that I change the mind of kids nowadays who call positivity toxic. Heck, I think there is a therapist who has a book titled Toxic Positivity.

Is she correct? Yes and no! The positivity she is talking about is FORCED. That is not...

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Find Money and Riches Like This!

stop the mind screw Mar 25, 2021

Just in case you missed it, here is a recap of the Hump Day Bump Day with Natalie Kime and finances and mind control.

We started with the end in mind. No, seriously we did. Natalie's Facebook Cover states, "Start with the end in mind"

That is exactly how I start my programs. Just like Neville Goddard teaches.

Natalie does the same thing. She said that when she coaches her clients on finances she tells them to start with the end in mind. Where do you want to be? What is your end goal?

Step #1 in Stop the Mind Screw program is just that. What do you want? What is your main goal? Then picture that in full detail, using all 5 senses.

Step #2 is a Mental Diet. What are you thinking? Is it high-quality thoughts or low-quality thoughts? 

Natalie said when she first meets her clients they often shame themselves by not doing what they needed to do beforehand.

She tells them, "Get it all out on the table. And then leave it there. We then start from where you are." A mental diet does the...

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The Person You Talk to The Most

stop the mind screw Mar 23, 2021

We talk to ourselves more than anyone else. But do you know the quality of those thoughts? Do you monitor this?

This is where our power lies.

In today's video, I discuss this very thing.

 

Chapters: 00:00 Intro 01:04 First thought 01:44 Reactivity/Proactivity 03:20 Insomnia Pitfalls: 05:27 1.Shape our beleifs 06:31 2. Outlook is affected 08:13 3. Personalize it Solutions: 10:13 1. Decisions are easier 10:35 2. Re-write those limiting beliefs 12:23 3. Who you surround yourself with even in self-talk 14:46 4. Exercise 15:50 5. Triggers 17:34 6. Have a sense of humor Humor 13:34

Tim Ferris Podcast with Matthew https://tinyurl.com/4yevjjtt

Green Lights https://amzn.to/2NAReLK

Toxic positivity https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLM...

Joseph Rodrigues https://www.youtube.com/user/JoeRodri...

Trigger video https://youtu.be/xeRobcFt-jA

House was stolen from me: https://youtu.be/5JhiPunRegQ

Stop the mind screw! Free resource guide on mental diets:  www.kathieowen.com/mental-diet

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Get in the Zone Like This!

Today's video is all about getting in the zone or flow as Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi calls it in his book titled Flow.

Main takeaways:

A person in flow has a high interest in life, they are persistent and they have low self-centeredness.

I discuss my personal experience with Flow, stay tuned to the very end where I explain something that happened on this very video! ‍

There are 4 undesired outcomes or pitfalls from not being in flow:

  1. Distractions both internal and external
  2. Resistance
  3. Wanting of instant gratification
  4. Monkey mind

Solutions

  1. Suggestions on how to block distractions
  2. A mental diet which becomes a lifestyle 
  3. Tame the monkey mind with journaling and meditation
  4. Non-resistance

I also discuss toxic positivity and when this type of approach is not possible due to the stages of grief.

Hope to see you there! 

 

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